There’s a
catholic philosopher and author I very much enjoy named Dr. Peter Kreeft. Dr.
Kreeft is a professor of philosophy at Boston College. He’s a convert to
Catholicism from Calvinism, and the author of over eighty books, including a
spiritual autobiography that came out a few months ago. I got to meet Dr.
Kreeft and have dinner with him when he came to give a lecture at our seminary
about 10 years ago.
Dr. Kreeft
tells the story about a time he was invited to give a talk at a small monastery
up in Connecticut. And at the end of his
visit, the monastery’s holy abbot approached Dr. Kreeft and said, “I’d like to
ask you a question, Doctor. And it’s the same question we ask every visitor to
our monastery. And the question is, “If you could ask God to give any gift
possible to these monks, what would you ask for?”
Dr. Kreeft,
thought about it for a moment, and said, “I would ask God to make every single
one of you fall totally in love with Jesus Christ for the rest of your life.
That is the gift for which I would ask.” At his answer, the abbot smiled and some
of the monks began to chuckle. Not
thinking it was a terrible answer, Dr. Kreeft asked the abbot why the monks
were laughing at him. And the abbot said, we are not laughing at you or your
response, it’s just that last month, Mother Theresa visited us, and she gave
the exact same answer: that you may fall totally in love with Jesus Christ.
Why would
Dr. Kreeft consider this the greatest gift you could wish for someone? Why do Mother
Theresa and the Saints consider falling totally in love with Jesus Christ the
greatest of all gifts? Why would they say that if you could give one gift to your
spouse or child, one gift to your neighbor, one gift to a stranger, to the
sick, imprisoned, or orphan, the best gift you could want for them is to love
Jesus Christ? What’s behind this answer? I promise it’s not false piety. They
are serious, dead serious. It’s what I want for all of you more than anything.
The reason
Dr. Kreeft, Mother Teresa, and the saints say that the greatest gift is to fall
totally in love with Jesus Christ is precisely what today’s Gospel reveals. In
this passage, Jesus shows us what loving him actually means, and what flows
from it.
First,
notice that Jesus treats love for him as the center of the Christian life: “If
you love me, you will keep my commandments.” He does not say merely, “If you
admire me,” or “If you find my teaching interesting.” He speaks of love. Why?
Because Christianity is not merely a moral system or a set of religious ideas.
It is a living relationship with Jesus Christ. To love him is the heart of
everything.
And then
Jesus shows why that love is the greatest gift. Whoever loves Jesus is drawn
into the very life of God. “The Spirit of Truth will be with you” “He remains
with you, and will be in you.” You are in me and I in you.” “Whoever loves me
will be loved by my Father.” “I will love him and reveal myself to him.” This
is extraordinary. To love Jesus Christ is not merely to become a better person,
though it does make us better. It is to enter into communion with the Blessed
Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. To have a living relationship with God
who Is a Communion of Love.
That is why
the saints are so serious about this. If a person falls in love with Jesus
Christ, then obedience ceases to be mere external rule-following. His
commandments are no longer just burdens imposed from outside. Love transforms
obedience into a participation in the life of God. Love makes life possible.
And Jesus
promises even more: “if you love me, I will not leave you orphans”. Those are
deeply consoling words, because one of the deepest fears in the human heart is
the fear of being abandoned. Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you
back? It hurts. Have you ever given your
heart, your loyalty, your trust, only to be ignored, rejected, or abandoned? The
human heart longs for more than the wound of loneliness and abandonment. Again,
we were made for communion, for love that endures.
And so Jesus
speaks addresses this directly: I will not leave you orphans. In other
words: I will not leave you alone, to fend for yourself. I will not leave you
to wander through life aimless, confused, in darkness, trying to make sense of
everything by your own strength.
“I am with
you always” the Lord says, and he is through the power of the Holy Spirit.
The one who
loves Christ receives not merely good advice, or an inspiring example from the
distant past, but the living presence of God dwelling within him. The Holy
Spirit is with those who love Jesus Christ, reminding us of all that Jesus
teaches, because God knows, we are prone to forget. The Holy Spirit comforts us,
because God knows, we are prone to suffering and trial. The Holy Spirit
convicts us because God knows how easily our fervor for pursuing holiness can
diminish.. The Holy Spirit guides because God knows how easily we become lost
amidst the confusion and chaos of the world.
Loving Jesus
Christ is the key to everything worth having. It’s the key to a happy marriage,
it’s the key to a healthy priesthood, it’s the key to withstanding the social
pressures that bombard the young, particularly on social media. It’s the key to
discovering who you were meant to be, to unlocking the potential of your mind
and heart and unique soul.
When we
understand the importance of loving Jesus Christ, we come to understand what
motivated the saints to serve God with such heroic virtue. Love of Jesus: it’s
what impelled St. Francis to embrace the leper even though he was initially
repulsed, it impelled St. Vincent de Paul to care for the plague victims at the
risk of his life. It impelled St. Francis Xavier Cabrini to leave her native Italy
to serve the immigrants here in the United States, and St. Junipero Sera and
St. Rose Philippine Duchesne to educate and serve the Native Americans, and St.
Mother Theresa to serve the poorest of the poor, St. Maximilian Kolbe to take
the place of the concentration camp prisoner about to be executed.
Love of
Jesus Christ transforms ordinary people to do extraordinary things, and it can
for us as well, if we let it, if we make loving Jesus our greatest aim.
How can we
grow in our love for Jesus? “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”
This is where today’s Gospel begins: Breaking the commandments is not just
breaking rules, sin turns the heart away from the beloved. Sin extinguishes the
fire of love. Obedience, however, proves love, reinforces love, seeks the
beloved in the face of obstacles.
Prayer, of
course, increases love because love requires presence. You do not fall in love
with a person you never spend time with or talk to or listen to or spend time
pondering.
Charitable service
increases love. Jesus identifies himself with others: “whatever you did for one
of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.” Service trains the heart away
from selfishness, which is the great enemy of love. It stretches the soul. It
makes us imitate the one who “came not to be served but to serve.”
The
Sacraments, especially the Eucharist and Confession increases love: for
confession restores the union that what was weakened or lost by sin; in
Communion, we become what we receive, Jesus Christ who is love incarnate.
We come to
holy mass seeking to love, to express love, to grow in love, to fall deeply in
love with Jesus, that love may guide us every day, in all of our relationships,
in our brokenness, in our trials, that love may heal us, sustain, transform us,
animate us for the glory of God and the salvation of souls.

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