A young mother once wrote to St. Francis de Sales when he
was Bishop and said, Bishop I’m trying very hard to live a good life, to be
holy, but I can’t get to Mass every day because I have these seven children who
are driving me crazy. Francis de Sales
wrote back to her and said “Madam, you should not go to Church every day; you
become a Saint by being the best mom you can be.”
Now he’s not saying here that you shouldn’t go to daily
Mass. But love and growing in holiness
are very practical things; that a mother shouldn’t neglect her duties as a
mother, in order to come to daily Mass.
Conversely, a mother shouldn’t be wrapped up in the world, that she
neglects her duties as a Christian, either.
To serve the many people entrusted to his care, as a Bishop,
St. Francis de Sales became a prolific writer—he writings comprise 26
volumes. Two of his books have become
spiritual classics, and continue to be published and read to this day: The Introduction to the Devout Life, and
The Treatise on the Love of God, in
which he offers profound advice for the person living in the midst of the
world, who wishes to pursue a holy life.
He truly believed that all people, in all walks of life, are
called by God to a devout life. He often
offered very practical suggestions for navigating through the temptations
presented by the world and for making progress on one’s spiritual journey. He spoke of the importance of prayer and
value of the sacraments, but also the role of friendship and virtue.
The Lord gives us all opportunities to love every day. Free time that we might selfishly devote to
our own pursuits, that should generously be turned to his service.
St. Francis de Sales is the patron saint of authors and
journalism. He is the patron saint of
spiritual directors; that they may give wise and practical guidance to those in
their care. He is also the patron of the
deaf because he developed a method of teaching a young deaf person the
catechism.
I conclude with a simple, practical prayer, composed by St.
Francis de Sales: “My God, I give you this day. I offer you, now, all of the
good that I shall do and I promise to accept, for love of you, all of the
difficulty that I shall meet. Help me to conduct myself during this day in a
manner pleasing to you. Amen.”
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